Pattaya ladies come in all shapes and personalities. You are sure to find one (every night) to your liking.

Pattaya ladies go either long-time (LT) or short-time (ST). This refers to the length of time she goes with you.

Typically ST is about one to two hours. It is more or less equivalent to what you would get from working girls at home. You can cum once or more during this time if you are lucky. If you are in a ST bar, they will have rooms for this purpose. If elsewhere, you will need to return to your hotel with her or find a ST room at further expense.

Long-time is typically overnight. Some ladies may leave as early as 7 am (which is not good service) or mid-afternoon. Some are very difficult to get rid of at all!! Early afternoon is the average time if the lady you have taken is fair.

Some people like only ST, and some only LT, but most do both. Many guys will have a ST during the day and then take a LT that night. What you do is up to you.

A variation on the LT is the girlfriend experience (GFE.) This is LT taken to the extreme. Where LT ends and GFE starts is open to debate. You’ll know when you are in a GFE when you are with her for 24 hours every day (or near to it), and she has a stash of clothes and other things in your room.

There is nothing wrong with GFE, and it has benefits. However, it has its dangers, as you and she may become too attached. If you don’t want this, implement the ‘3-day rule’ as discussed earlier.

Costs for a Pattaya Lady

This subject will always bring about a hot debate. Many people have differing views on this. Some believe in paying the girls as little as possible, while others are prepared to pay them well above the odds. What you pay is totally up to you and should be based on the value you get from the lady.

Paying them too little may get you in trouble. Here is what you should consider as a minimum to pay them after the event. Note that you should only pay them once they are just about to leave. Paying them before the fun starts may lower the standard of service.

The expectations of the beer bar girls and go-go girls differ. For beer bar girls (including ST bars), expect to pay 1,500 Baht for ST and 3000 for long-time. Some may ask for considerably more. Bar fines for bar girls is generally about 500 Baht.

In recent times the expectations of go-go girls have risen considerably. For ST, 3000 Baht is the expectation. For LT, you will be looking at about 5000 Baht. Bar fines in go-go bars range from 1000 to 1500 Baht.

Difference between Open-Air Bars and Go-gos

The last section states that go-go girls have higher expectations than beer bar girls. Whether they are worth more is debatable; it is not in every case. However, that is irrelevant as our views will not change what they are expecting to get paid.

You will undoubtedly notice that the standard of the ladies in go-go bars is generally higher than in the beer bars. This is not always the case, as some real mingers work in go-go bars, and some stunners work in beer bars. The fact that you can have a good look at your potential partner in a go-go bar is an advantage.

In go-go bars, the ladies tend to be more hardened, and you are more likely to encounter a starfish (poor performer). For this reason (and the higher cost involved), some guys will not take ladies from go-go bars.

You should know what is known as ‘agency girls’ in go-go bars. These are women who do not work directly for the bar. They work for a different business. They cost the bar more, and this extra cost via higher bar fines and, in some cases, higher lady drink prices. This method allows for higher pay and more flexibility, so many better lookers work under this scheme.

Due to the nature of go-go girls and their expectations vary, it is an excellent idea to negotiate a price before you pay bar. This is quite acceptable and could prevent an ugly scene at the end of your time together. A perfect way to improve performance, at least a little, is to state that you may give her a little more if you have a good time.

Being a Butterfly

A butterfly is a guy who goes with many ladies. Typically, a guy on a short stay changes ladies every day or two. There are other related terms such as airport, helicopter, and skylab with increasing degrees of how often a person changes ladies. These terms are usually used in jest.

Be it face or not liking losing a customer, the ladies do not like guys to pay bar for other ladies in her bar once you have paid bar for her.

The usual scenario is that you walk into a bar and find that you like the looks of more than one lady. You are faced with the dilemma of which one to pick. One way around this is that you buy some drinks for both of them as you talk and joke with them. Once you have decided which one you will take for that night, you can say to the other (so that the one you are going to pay bar for can hear) that you are going to pay bar for the other lady, but you’ll be back to pay bar for her the following day. This tells both of them that you are a butterfly, and they know exactly what to expect of you.

On the subject of being a butterfly, it is a good idea to tell any lady that you are talking to that you are a butterfly. This will tell them that you have no plans to be with them for more than a day. Indeed, say it to every girl before you bar fine them if that is your intention. This can save you from problems further down the track.

One lady not enough!?

It is easy to bar fine two ladies and return to your room. What you will most probably get in this situation is one will hide in the toilet until you have finished with the other lady before they swap. It is harder to get two ladies who are into each other.

You should talk to the bar’s mamasan if this is what you want. She will know if two girls are into this sort of thing. The girls will be with you quickly if the bar can accommodate you. Pattaya is such a great place that it is possible to find identical twins to entertain you for the night.

If you take one lady from a bar and she agrees to go with another lady from a different bar, have her select the second girl. You will likely find they are into each other or can work together. You may like to ask them to kiss each other to get an idea of how they will work together.

Respect

You may not respect them like a teacher or your parents, but the girls are still human beings, so respect them. Treat them well; in most cases, you will get more than you put in.

A part of being respectful is not spinning a web of lies to get something for free. The money they get is a little for us. Don’t try to sell them hope to deprive them of income.

Photography

Most of the ladies do not mind being photographed. It is respectful to ask before doing so, even if you indicate that you want a photo. Most will pose and flash a great smile, but not all.

The situation can be different back in the room. You can find ladies who will let you take photos without their clothes on, especially if you offer more money. You may have to lay on the charm a bit to get these photos. Unfortunately, the girls are internet savvy and will not allow naked images. Also, remember that pornography is illegal in Thailand, so be careful.

Never take a photograph in a go-go bar or another bar where there is nudity without asking first. If you try to take photos in a go-go bar without asking, expect some unfriendly behaviour.