As previously stated Pattaya girls usually come from a poor rural family with a sense of
obligation to provide for their families. The girls head to Pattaya after hearing stories of girls coming and
making lots of money. They also have heard about how girls come and meet a rich farang who look after them and
their family. Most come with the idea of marrying a nice man to release them from their obligations that are placed
on them by their family.
Unfortunately, for the girls, the reality of Pattaya is rather different. Perhaps they meet a
man that they think is good. He promises her many great and grand things. He goes home with the promise of coming
back to marry her but she never hears from him again. Perhaps she hears and sees similar things from the girls that
she is working with.
The result of this is that many Pattaya girls quickly take the view that farang men are theirs
to take as much money from as possible. This will suit guys who only go to Pattaya for a couple of weeks. They can
just go and have fun and not have to worry too much about attachments. However, this situation is full of traps for
those who are unaware of the situation. Don't be one of those guys!
There is no doubt some good girls in Pattaya but being a newbie don't go there looking for one.
The sharks are just waiting for you and they are good at what they do. The section below is a bit of a warning
about bar girls.
Bar Girl's Goals
From the previous sections you can see that a bar girl's (BG) main aim is to make money.
However, how this is done can be quite mischievous. Alone with the money she earns from guys who pay bar for her
many will also try to find ‘sponsors.’ A sponsor is someone who sends her money on a regular basis (usually) on the
premise that she no longer works in a bar. While the sponsor is not around she returns to her bar (or another one)
and carries on like normal. Some Pattaya girls have more than one sponsor.
There are all sorts of scams that the girls pull on guys to extract money. Things like a sick
buffalo or sick parents are common reasons. Some girls will be giving these sorts of stories to many men at the
same time. It’s a great way to make money, isn’t it!!???
Something that you will need to learn is to block out their sweet talk. Pattaya girls can be
very good at making you feel special. They are good at their job and this is to increase their earning capacity
from you. This is not always the case but it is a good policy to assume that it is for a first
Go to Thailand as a butterfly (someone who changes partners often) and you’ll have a great time
with the girls in Pattaya. A common rule is what is called the ‘3 day rule.’ The idea is to never take a lady for
more than 3 days in a row. This stops you (and her) becoming too attached. Some people have a 2 day rule and some
even a 3 hour rule, but up to you.
It will be in your best interest to treat the girls well. A little goes a long way. Treat the
girls right and most times you will get more in return. Show some respect and that will be returned too.
Due to the nature of the business in Pattaya many of the stories that you hear about the girls
is negative. It is easy to think that all of the bar girls are cold and calculating. This is not true as there are
some good girls working in the bars in Pattaya as this story demonstates: Would I Marry a Bar Girl?